Tuesday, March 15, 2011

The Principle of the Path

Sorry for not posting this weekend, Amy and I took a Mini-honeymoon and did not want to pay the money to get interenet at the hotel! :-) 

Anyway, here we go with today's post!

Recently I read a book that discussed an amazingly simply concept...but one that many folks seem to struggle with. 

In the book The Principle of the Path: How To Get From Where You Are To Where You Want to Be, Andy Stanley offers us this little nugget of wisdom:
"Direction-not intention-determines destination" (Stanely page 14).
Here it is reworded a bit differently...

"The Direction you are currently traveling--relationally, financially, spiritually, and the list goes on and on--will determine where you end up in each of those respective arenas." (Stanley page 15).

He also states it this way, "direction--not intentions, hopes, dreams, prayers, beliefs, intellect, or education--determines destination". (Stanley page 15)

It seems so simple...and yet many of us do not get it.

We understand that if we point our car north...its not going to go east unless we turn the steering wheel.
However, we have trouble applying this simple principle to our lives.

If you neglect your body by eating too much and avoiding the gym...don't be surprised when you do not lose weight.

If you neglect your spouse and spend no time with them...do not be shocked when that relationship falls apart.

If you spend money freely and never save anything...do not be surprised you always have to live paycheck to paycheck.

If you never crack open a book or do your homework...do not be surprised when you get a bad grade in the class.

If you do not study for the test at all...do not be surprised when you don't get the grade you want.

If you text and drive...do not be shocked when one day you have an accident.

It all seems so simple. 
It seems like common sense.
We are even really good at pointing out this principle in other peoples lives.

We hear a story about someone who is having problems, and we can usually quickly tell them what aspect of their life pointed them in this direction. 
If I talk to a parent about their child starting to do drugs and drink...I am not shocked when I hear their grades are slipping and their attitude has changed.

The direction they pointed their life...determines their destination.

However, for some reason, we often fail to figure out what direction our own lives are pointed.
And then we are shocked by the consequences of the decision to point our life in that direction. 

So you ask, "what does this have to do with Lent..after all this is a blog/devotional for the Lenton season?"

Well...this same principle shows up in our own spiritual life.
If you never pick up your Bible to read, well, you will not learn more about scripture.
If you DO pick up your Bible to read, you WILL learn more about scripture.

If you never pray...do not be surprised when it feels like "God is silent" in your life. do not be surprised when you do not feel closer to God.
If you sleep in on Sundays...do not be surprised when you do not feel closer to God.

If you decide that sports, friends, work, etc. are more important that small group at church...do not be surprised when you continually feel distant from God. 

So my question to you for the day is simple...what direction is your "spiritual life car" pointed?
Is it pointed more toward yourself, making work, school, sports, friends, money, etc?
Or is it pointed toward making God the center of your life?

I speak with youth and parents all the time who are frustrated with where their relationship with God is at the moment.
They have great intentions to get closer to God.  Their have a strong desire to be closer and make God a priority.  When you talk to them, it sounds like their greatest hope and dream in life is to feel "as close to God as they used to"...

And yet, when we talk, it becomes clear that everything else takes priority over their relationship with God. 

On mission trips, I do not allow youth to take their cell phones, ipods, psp's, etc.  So for a week, they are cut off from the internet, facebook, and texting. 
I do this because I try to remove the distractions that often keep us from making God a priority.

Usually at the end of the week, most of the youth have had a powerful experience with God. 

I usually get asked "how I can keep this feeling back home."  When I point out that they had all of these "distractions" removed, making it easier to focus their energy on God...I usually get a very sad/disturbed look on their face.

They want that feeling of the "mountain top experience", but do not want to redirect their "spiritual car". 
Redirecting their life will take effort, will take some self sacrifice and may even sacrifice some friendships.

Are you willing to do what it takes to "redirect your spiritual car"? 

If you are not, do not be surprised when in a year or two, you feel even more distant from God than you may feel right now.

After all, Direction-not INTENTION-determines your spiritual destination.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Tomorrow, Tomorrow, I'll do it tomorrow

In my opinion, there is a growing trend in our culture that I think is dangerous. 
I must admit...I fall into its trap.  Often.  Daily even...
I see many folks fall into its trap.  
And we have some great excuses...some really good ones.
However, like I said...I think its a dangerous trend. 

I think a quote by Robert Heinlein best gets at the root of the problem:
"Progress is made by lazy men looking for easier ways to do things". 


Is the invention of the motor vehicle progress?  Definitely, but I also think it also allows us to be lazy.
I often drive down to the youth house to grab something, instead of walking.  Its probably barely a tenth of a mile, but I still walk it.  I say its a time issue, but in reality, I'm just being lazy.

Is the invention of the cell phone progress? Of course, there are many great perks to cell phones.  However, I think it has also allowed us to become increasingly lazy.  Instead of calling and having a real conversation with someone, a quick text will do.  We often just text when we do not really want to "face" talking to someone.  Cell phones are progress, but they have also lead to lazy friendships and relationships. 

Is the invention of the computer progress?  Without a doubt.  But how many hours do we waste on facebook, online games, email, youtube, etc.?  It is unreal how lazy computers allow us to be at times. 


I could go on, but I think you get the point.  There are so many things we call progress, that have simply just allowed us to be lazy. 
But it is not just technology where we are lazy.  How many of these statements are familiar?
"I'll start going to the gym tomorrow."
"I'll start my diet tomorrow."
"I'll just do those dishes tomorrow."
"I'll start that project tomorrow."
Once again, I could go on. 

What bothers me as well is that it seems many of us, most of us, just do not like to work for things anymore.
I read in a book recently that this current teenage generations motto is "when the going gets tough, just quit and do something else."

If things are hard, we just give up. 
Getting in shape takes work and is hard, so we just ignore it.
Being financially sound takes work and is hard, so we just spend and swipe the credit card.
Dieting is hard, so we just order the fries and burger. 

I have given guitar lessons to many youth before and I have had more youth quit than stick with it over the last 10 years.  The number one reason... "it's just too hard and I don't want to try."
This isn't just a teenage problem though.  This is a problem I see with adults and youth alike.  Putting forth effort and putting the work in to something hard just seems like a lost art. 

It is no surprise that this same attitude filters into our spiritual lives. 
A solid prayer life takes work...so we just do not try.
Understanding scripture takes time and effort, and the patience to sit still and listen for God to speak...but we are too lazy to put that time in.
Fasting is hard, and we'd just rather not take the time.

And yet, you ask most folks and they are frustrated with where they are in their relationship with God.
Most of us want to be closer to God, but most of us are just too lazy to put in the time.

We want to pray more, but that extra 15 minutes of sleep is just too important.
We want to read more scripture, but we are too lazy to discipline ourselves to make it a priority.

What do you think would happen to your friendships, marriages and family relationships if you approached them with the same laziness you approach your faith with?  

I have a feeling if I was as lazy in my relationship with Amy, as I am with God at times, our marriage wouldn't last very long.

How much energy are you putting into your relationship with God? 
If you've been lazy, putting forth little effort, it is not too late to change. 
I know you probably have some great excuses and reasons as to why you've been lazy with your faith.  I know that I have some excuses that could make a top 10 best excuses of all times list. 

However, it is only day 2 of Lent... the time when we are supposed to focus our heart, mind, soul and strength on God.

I think Lent this year is a great time to shed that laziness.   


 

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Gotta, Wanna, Needa, Getta, Hava

We live in a culture that thrives on bigger, better, faster...
We life in a culture that does not see patience and frugality as virtues, but rather signs of weakness.  They are seen as being a sign of being lower on the totem pole.
The more you have, the better your social status.  The faster you get it, the more impressive it appears.

Patience is laughed upon.
Denying yourself things is seen as foolish.
Why wait 2 years on your cell phone before getting something new?  I mean, after two years, your cell phone will be ancient and should be put in a museum.
Why drive a car until it no longer runs, has dents in it and is over 200,000 miles.  Even if it is much more financially responsible to do so, we convince ourselves that it is so much "safer" to get a new car.
I was once in a bible study where someone was asking for prayer request for their car...they were worried it would start malfunctioning and having problems now that it was approaching 100,000 miles.  I laughed a bit and explained that I had never bought a car or had a car that had under 100,000 miles on it!  My first car was finally parked at 307,000 miles.  You didn't need a key to start the ignition, it didn't have interior door handles, and was an automatic for the first 100,000 miles of its life (and a manual the last 207,000 miles).  That car was in my family for many years, without having to have a car payment.  Believe it or not, we were all just fine not having "the newest car in the lot".  If anything, I think we all learned valuable lessons about taking car of things and not having the greatest, newest car. 
We definitely live in a "gotta, wanna, needa, getta, hava" society.  We want it now, we want it to be the best.  We convince ourselves that our "wants" are really "needs".

Today we enter a season of Lent in the church.  Many people have a tradition of "giving up something" during this season.  The idea is that we "deny" ourselves something for a period of 40 days, so that we may grow closer to God.

Isn't that kind of an odd idea and backwards of this world?  If we want to grow closer to God...we deny ourselves.  When considering what they want to give up for lent, I always ask the youth to think about things that stand between them and God.  I tell them to just make a list of things they think hinder their relationship with God, things that take up their time or focus.  Last year, one of the youth made the statement that "I'm going to have to give up an awful lot of things for lent then."
These things that we "gotta" have often are the very things that stand in our way of growing closer to God.
The things on our "wanna" list usually have more to do with our own pleasure, rather than our efforts to please or worship God.
Our only real "needa" is a closer relationship with our creator, our sustainer.  Our real need is a closer relationship with the one who gives us true life and joy.
And yet, we chase so many things that prove time and time again do not bring real happiness to our lives.
By all worldly accounts, Tiger Woods had everything this world says you need to be happy.
He had a beautiful wife, 2 children, the best cars (and many of them), huge home (many of them too), lots of talent, good looks, plenty of money and endorsements.  He had everything and yet, clearly he was not very happy with things.

I encourage you to "deny" yourself of the worldly things that may stand in your way of a better relationship with God over the next 40 days.  Go against what our culture says is the key to happiness and get for maybe the first time in your life...deny yourself of something.  Do not make it something easy (many youth argue that school takes up lots of time and energy and blocks them from God).
The hardest thing I've ever given up was "fried food".  Want to starve... try that one out.
Our pastor gives up bread...once again, something that will be terribly difficult.

In the past I've given up television, eating out, sodas and even cheese one year.
The point is we deny ourselves, so we can gain a bit more of Christ.
Do not just give up something so you may fill that space with something else.
I even think we miss out on a blessing when we do not "deny" ourselves something and just "add a good habit".  It is a commendable thought, but how well does that work at New Years for most folks?

I hope you really challenge yourself this year during Lent and give up something that will take lots of effort on your part.
In those times that you are struggling with the temptation to give in, you should turn your focus to God and rely on God for strength.
After all, the whole idea and point of Lent is to prepare ourselves for the death and resurrection of Christ.  Our focus all year should be on Christ, but this is a time to really evaluate where you are spiritually and do what you can to grow close to Christ.

This world tells us we are weak if we are patient and foolish if we "wait" on things.  However, scripture tells us a very different story.  Below, I'm just going to list a few of the scriptures that tells us maybe denying ourselves, being patient and relying on God are not signs of weakness, but signs of a wise man!

For me to live is Christ and to die is gain.  Philippians 1:21

"Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him;
fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way,
over the man who carries out evil devices!"
Psalm 37:7


I waited patiently for the Lord;
he inclined to me and heard my cry.
Psalm 40:1

but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength;
they shall mount up with wings like eagles;
they shall run and not be weary;
they shall walk and not faint.
Isaiah 40:31 

More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.
Romans 5:3-5 


But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience.
Romans 8:25 






Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.
Romans 12:12





Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.
Philippians 4:11 



Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
James 1:2-4

Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord. See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient about it, until it receives the early and the late rains. You also, be patient. Establish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is at hand.
James 5:7-8 

The Lord is my strength and song, he has become my salvation.
Psalm 118:114

Sunday, December 26, 2010

How He Loves

How He Loves Us Video

Oh, how He loves us so,
Oh how He loves us,
How He loves us all

I've thought a lot the last few days about how much God must love us.
I mean...to send his son to live amongst us, to be one of us, and to face pain and sorrow like us is just amazing.

To come down and make Himself vulnerable in the form of a child just leaves me in awe. 

Yesterday, we celebrated the coming of the greatest gift ever given.  We celebrated the greatest the only real gift that truly has "no strings attached." 

Thing is, our celebration should not stop.  Christmas is not really over. 


In the Christian calendar, Christmas is not officially over until January 5th, but for many folks, Christmas is already ending.  In the next couple of days the trees will come down and the decorations will be put away.
The wrapping paper will be thrown away, the house cleaned up and relatives will leave.

For the most part, Christmas will begin to fade in our minds.  In 6 months, many of you will not even be able to say what gifts you received this year.  

But as Christians, Christmas should not be over...it should be just beginning.

Jesus came down on earth in the form of a little child to show His great love for US!  Christmas begins with us taking Christ out to others.  Christmas continues with us giving the gift of Love's Pure Light to others. 

Today is still Christmas...what are you doing to still celebrate?  Are you still in the Christmas Spirit?  You might still be today, but how about tomorrow?  Or the next day?  Or January 5th?  Will Christmas still be on your mind? 

Will others be able to still see Christmas Light shining in you? 

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas!!!

I'm taking the day off from blogging and spending it with my family!  :-) 
Hope that is okay with you! 

Friday, December 24, 2010

Love's Pure Light

Silent Night

The above link is to a video by Sixpence None the Richer (as well as Dan Haseltine from Jars of Clay).

I think it is a very cool video for one of my favorite Christmas songs.  I like this song because the song was written and intended for guitar.  I also like it for the beautiful harmonies that can be found.  But ultimately, I love the words.  I especially love the 3rd verse.

Silent Night, Holy Night
Son of God, Love's pure light. 
Radiant beams from Thy holy face
With the dawn of redeeming grace
Jesus, Lord, at Thy birth
Jesus, Lord, at Thy birth. 

I Love it..."Love's pure light."  I love thinking about the light that Jesus brings to the world.  I love thinking about the light that Jesus brings to ME! 

I love the part of the Christmas Eve services, when we all lift our candles high, belting out the 3rd verse of "Silent Night."

I love the peacefulness of that moment.  I love the reverence of that moment.

I don't know if it is the "Calm before the storm" or what, but I just love that moment.  I always feel the presence of God in a very strong way in that part of the service. 

However, what I feel stronger than anything else, is the calling to take that light out unto the world.  The message of the Gospel is clear and it is clear that we as Christians are given the task of sharing the light of Christ. 

As our campus Pastor, Andrea Smith, said at the Christmas Eve Eve service...The manger has a mission. 

We have a mission. 

We celebrate Christmas with our families tomorrow, but our mission for the year also starts tomorrow.

Christmas doesn't end tomorrow, it just begins.

It begins with us sharing the light of Christ with others.
It begins with us being the hands and feet of Christ.
It begins with dropping the label of "Christian" and we start "Being" a Christian.
It begins when we stop just going to church and we start Being the church.

It begins with You. 

Love's pure light comes tonight for YOU!
Are you going to hide that light? 
Are you going to let it fade and just go back to "life as normal" next week?

Love's pure light comes tonight for You!

What are you going to do with that gift?

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Rush of Fools

Peace, Be Still

PEACE BE STILL - By Rush Of Fools
Come to Me, you who are weak
Let My strength be yours tonight
Come and rest, let My love be your bed
Let My heart be yours tonight

Peace be still, Peace be still
Please be still and know that I am God
and know that I am God

Come empty cup, let Me fill you up
I'll descend on you like a dove tonight
Lift your head, let your eyes fall into Mine
Let your fear subside tonight

Peace be still, Peace be still
Please be still and know that I am God
and know that I am God

Hallelujah, Hallelujah
Hallelujah, Hallelujah

Peace be still, Peace be still
Please be still and know that I am God
and know that I am God

It's not necessarily a "Christmas" song, but it is a song that has very much been in my thoughts this Christmas. 
Fact is, over the next few weeks, I'll probably more have free time than I will most other times of the year.
I won't be at the church as much, I'll have time to sit and just relax some. 
You won't have to be at school.  You won't have to go to work.  You will have days that you may not even get out of your pajamas. 

There may be a few days here and there that are crazy busy with family coming in town or just spending time with your own family.  But for most of us, we'll have some time to just relax.

And yet, this always seems to be the time of year that I get "off track" with my daily quiet times, prayers, scripture reading and devotionals.  Seems kind of odd that I'll have more "free time" and yet, I'll spend less time with God. 

I doubt I am alone though.  I imagine you are likely right there with me on this one. 
It's so easy to get caught up in the business of Christmas day to forget to go to the one that we are celebrating in the first place.
It's easy to just continue to lounge in our pajamas, playing games and watching tv, and not spend time in prayer and study.

For some of you, prayer and study time may not be a regular part of your life anyway. 

I encourage you to take some time the next few weeks to really "Please be still and know that He is God." 
It's amazing how this could change your Christmas experience.  How cool would it be if as a family, first thing you did on Christmas day was not opening gifts, but turning to God for a family prayer?

How cool would it be if instead of jumping right into presents, you read the Christmas story as a family. 

How shocking would it be if your parents said it was time to open gifts and you said "no, lets wait a while, I need to spend some time with God first." 

I know I'm sounding a little "Churchy" right now, but this isn't about church...this is about Christ being number one in your life. 
This isn't "acting like a good Christian", this is having a real relationship with God. 
This isn't about just going through the motions, but really making Christ a member of your family and not just someone to add into the family when it is convenient. 

Whether it is one of those "Super busy days", one of those "extremely lazy days", or just something in between...Please take time to be still and know that He is God.  Set aside time, schedule time to focus on nothing but God. 

Part of why I thought of this song, was a different "Rush of Fools" song was on the other day while I was sitting in traffic by the church.  I thought about the name of the band "Rush of Fools" and just laughed.

I looked around at all the stressed out faces.
I looked around to see all the folks that are in so much of a hurry that logic and traffic laws didn't apply to them.
I looked at the near by shopping center, with folks scurrying around to buy last minute presents.

And I just thought...we really are a bunch of "fools" rushing around.  We are so busy to mesh with expectations during the holidays, that we forget why we have this holiday in the first place.

How foolish is it of us to just hurry through the holidays, wearing ourselves out...only to forget to be still and know that He is God.
How foolish is it for us to forget what it's all about during the holidays.

We are a "Rush of Fools"...

But we don't have to continue to be.
Peace be still,
Please be still.
And KNOW that He is God!